"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why are half the threads here about "Why women suck"?

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God_0f_Getting_Laid said:
hahaha. yeah, quote a troll for support. you have lost it man, at least you used to be a decent troll.
idiots,

two idiots argue and nothing is accomplished.

mods, close the damn thread.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Jariel said:
My theory: Many guys here would rather blame other people than accept their own faults and do something to change them.

That goes for men and women alike - lazy people love to b!tch!
Ahhh, it's not theory... Go ahead and say it, it's a fact.
 

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Because it's easier for a guy to complain about and blame women for all their problems than it is to take responsibility for the part they play in their own misfortune. If guys on here spent even a quarter of the time taking an honest look at their mistakes and poor choices that they do biotching about women they would realize that they would get much further in life by focusing on themselves. Afterall...the only person you can ever change is yourself...and that is and will always be the key to success.
 

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Wyldfire said:
...the only person you can ever change is yourself...and that is and will always be the key to success.
Not everyone can manage that level of accountability.
 

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diplomatic_lies said:
It just seems a little...well, creepy. Half the forums are filled with threads crying about the negative aspects of women. For a while I thought this was the gay PUA forum.
Docs said:
A while being almost 5 years? :D
-Agreed.
Francisco d'Anconia said:
Personally, I see more camaraderie in this forum when guys come together to commiserate about the latest evil banshee who rebuffed them or took advantage of their AFC actions. Misery loves company.
Shiftkey said:
Women really aren't the b1tches a lot of guys here make them out to be unless you project yourself as someone those women want to avoid. Who do you think those women want to avoid? Bitter women haters maybe? It's a downward spiral.
Jariel said:
My theory: Many guys here would rather blame other people than accept their own faults and do something to change them.

That goes for men and women alike - lazy people love to b!tch!
Take notes noobies, these Uber-PUA's are too bathed in women to notice any annoying things they do. You too will one day reach this level of enlightenment.

Doods come on.. guys complain coz women are damn annoying.

Sometimes I wonder why we do it, heh.. That don't last long.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MuayThai said:
Take notes noobies, these Uber-PUA's are too bathed in women to notice any annoying things they do. You too will one day reach this level of enlightenment.

Doods come on.. guys complain coz women are damn annoying.

Sometimes I wonder why we do it, heh.. That don't last long.
Oh not at all. Women annoy me quite a bit. And I'm no Uber-PUA. The difference between me and the women haters is that I know how to move on and pursue the women I get along with. I know that it's not productive to ***** and whine about people for no purpose other than to ***** and whine.
 

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Some women suck... Some women don't
Why do you want to censor us talking about the sucky one and only talk about the women you have placed on a pedestal
 

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PheonixUK said:
Some women suck... Some women don't
Why do you want to censor us talking about the sucky one and only talk about the women you have placed on a pedestal
Interesting that you spoke on the polar opposite ways that guys could see women without mentioning a healthy medium. Was is that?
 

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PheonixUK said:
Some women suck... Some women don't
Why do you want to censor us talking about the sucky one and only talk about the women you have placed on a pedestal
Simple. The goal of this forum is to teach men to improve their success with women. The woman hating rants are counter productive to that goal.

As Francisco d'Anconia pointed out, you have to find a middle ground in your attitude towards women.
 
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Why are half the threads complaining about hors??

Because hors "suck" literally and figuratively speaking!!!! Wake up kid, this is the year 2007!!! Get out of The Matrix!!!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well I think a lot of it has to do with the majority of SoSuave still being virgins at age 25-44
 
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