"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why are half the threads here about "Why women suck"?

diplomatic_lies

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It just seems a little...well, creepy. Half the forums are filled with threads crying about the negative aspects of women. For a while I thought this was the gay PUA forum.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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the gay forum? gay men get along amazingly well with american women. every american female has her "gay boy" that she can talk to about things with. as i have said a zillion times, america was made for the gay man. at least the 2007 version.

for your information. gay men love strong, independent, aggressive women. they have always been madonna's strongest supporters. barbara streisand? they love her. tina turner? got her. the attitude that the american broad projects these days suits the gay male just fine. he is not interested in chasing chubs, and she views him as totally harmless. plus, the american females total lack of style has led her to rely on the gay man's ability to match just about anything.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Whether it's their fault or not, women are just flat-out worse individuals than men.
Generally, if I don't like someone, I ignore them completely. You should do the same.
 

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diplomatic_lies said:
For a while I thought this was the gay PUA forum.
And then you realised it wasnt and started b!tching about americans, 3rd world countries and guys who say they have greater than or equal to a 25% pickup rate.

Let it go , and stop pretending your above a handful of disgruntled rAFC's blowing off steam.

At least theyre at the 2nd stage (anger), which is leaps and bounds beyond where you are.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why? Because Allen doesn't know how to set appropriate forum rules. Other men's forums with just as many members don't have half the problems this place does. But they actually have decent moderation :rolleyes:
 

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( . )( . ) said:
B!tch b!tch b!tch...
Oh no, I'm being abused by a pair of boobs! I'm going to be scarred for life...
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Because hordes of men staring at, and supplicating to hot women have turned the vast majority of them into snotty, manipulative, little bіtches.

The ugly women are jealous of the attention, and power men have given the hot women, and turn into bіtches as well.

Whether it's their fault or not, women are just flat-out worse individuals than men.
What he said exactly.

It's mostly young and/or immature women. Most of em will realize their place when they grow up.
 

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I think some of the guys here - as I once was - are bitter and frustrated, which is counterproductive. It is a stage, you grow out of it.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Because hordes of men staring at, and supplicating to hot women have turned the vast majority of them into snotty, manipulative, little bіtches.

The ugly women are jealous of the attention, and power men have given the hot women, and turn into bіtches as well.

Whether it's their fault or not, women are just flat-out worse individuals than men.

EDIT: Worse, in general. Should've clarified that earlier.
Assuming this is true, why do guys keep giving these women attention? This is why I don't randomly sarge women no matter their quality, yet it seems as if many guys in this forum choose to do this. What should they expect if they aren't selective in the women they pursue?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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~attrACTION~ said:
I think some of the guys here - as I once was - are bitter and frustrated, which is counterproductive. It is a stage, you grow out of it.
Personally, I see more camaraderie in this forum when guys come together to commiserate about the latest evil banshee who rebuffed them or took advantage of their AFC actions. Misery loves company.
 

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Usually when a woman burns me, I say that it is her loss and my gain. I had all the go signs from a woman and made out with her. She then grew cold and stayed far away from me for whatever the reason. I don't care enough so I don't post about it. Now, I'm back to fulfilling my dreams I barely remember girls like that. Why does everyone on this website like to b!tch?
Francisco d'Anconia said:
Personally, I see more camaraderie in this forum when guys come together to commiserate about the latest evil banshee who rebuffed them or took advantage of their AFC actions. Misery loves company.
I only visit the website for the HF and AE forum because the rest are just regurgitating the same exact thing from last year, the woman-hating is annoying, and general negativity is irritating to say the least.

comic_relief
 

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Let it go , and stop pretending your above a handful of disgruntled rAFC's blowing off steam.

At least theyre at the 2nd stage (anger), which is leaps and bounds beyond where you are.
Is there light at the end of the tunnel???? You been *****ing and whining for a while now .:whistle:
i hope you get onto next stage soon.....
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Personally, I see more camaraderie in this forum when guys come together to commiserate about the latest evil banshee who rebuffed them or took advantage of their AFC actions. Misery loves company.
Camaraderie amongst the bitter idiots maybe. Meanwhile more experienced members get scared away when they could be helping the newbies.

A lot of you guys are saying it's just a "stage," but here it's a stage that's embraced far too much. And one that should be skipped, or at the very least limited. Women really aren't the b1tches a lot of guys here make them out to be unless you project yourself as someone those women want to avoid. Who do you think those women want to avoid? Bitter women haters maybe? It's a downward spiral.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My theory: Many guys here would rather blame other people than accept their own faults and do something to change them.

That goes for men and women alike - lazy people love to b!tch!
 
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Because hordes of men staring at, and supplicating to hot women have turned the vast majority of them into snotty, manipulative, little bіtches.

The ugly women are jealous of the attention, and power men have given the hot women, and turn into bіtches as well.

Whether it's their fault or not, women are just flat-out worse individuals than men.

EDIT: Worse, in general. Should've clarified that earlier.
yup, thats why 85% of the crimes in this country are committed by men. Yeah, good point. Stop hating your mother!
 
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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
I think they're just retarded, man. I used to work with these guys at a movie theater that would always fawn over the hot girls that came in. Usually they gave them free stuff, or just straight up let them in for free. I think, maybe subconsciously, that they have a better chance of sleeping with them if they are extra nice and give them free ѕhit. :rolleyes:
Yeah, you're right. They should have used the Deus method. "oh god here comes a girl!!! (mumble to yourself) look away, be strong! look away, be strong! go away evil b'itch. oh no, she looked at me! dont look, be strong!"
 
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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Sure, God. I'm the troll. Stop making it so easy for me.
hahaha. yeah, quote a troll for support. you have lost it man, at least you used to be a decent troll.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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