"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why are half the threads here about "Why women suck"?

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God_0f_Getting_Laid said:
hahaha. yeah, quote a troll for support. you have lost it man, at least you used to be a decent troll.
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idiots,

two idiots argue and nothing is accomplished.

mods, close the damn thread.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jariel said:
My theory: Many guys here would rather blame other people than accept their own faults and do something to change them.

That goes for men and women alike - lazy people love to b!tch!
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Ahhh, it's not theory... Go ahead and say it, it's a fact.
 
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Because it's easier for a guy to complain about and blame women for all their problems than it is to take responsibility for the part they play in their own misfortune. If guys on here spent even a quarter of the time taking an honest look at their mistakes and poor choices that they do biotching about women they would realize that they would get much further in life by focusing on themselves. Afterall...the only person you can ever change is yourself...and that is and will always be the key to success.
 
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Wyldfire said:
...the only person you can ever change is yourself...and that is and will always be the key to success.
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Not everyone can manage that level of accountability.
 
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diplomatic_lies said:
It just seems a little...well, creepy. Half the forums are filled with threads crying about the negative aspects of women. For a while I thought this was the gay PUA forum.
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Docs said:
A while being almost 5 years? :D
-Agreed.
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Personally, I see more camaraderie in this forum when guys come together to commiserate about the latest evil banshee who rebuffed them or took advantage of their AFC actions. Misery loves company.
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Shiftkey said:
Women really aren't the b1tches a lot of guys here make them out to be unless you project yourself as someone those women want to avoid. Who do you think those women want to avoid? Bitter women haters maybe? It's a downward spiral.
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Jariel said:
My theory: Many guys here would rather blame other people than accept their own faults and do something to change them.

That goes for men and women alike - lazy people love to b!tch!
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Take notes noobies, these Uber-PUA's are too bathed in women to notice any annoying things they do. You too will one day reach this level of enlightenment.

Doods come on.. guys complain coz women are damn annoying.

Sometimes I wonder why we do it, heh.. That don't last long.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MuayThai said:
Take notes noobies, these Uber-PUA's are too bathed in women to notice any annoying things they do. You too will one day reach this level of enlightenment.

Doods come on.. guys complain coz women are damn annoying.

Sometimes I wonder why we do it, heh.. That don't last long.
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Oh not at all. Women annoy me quite a bit. And I'm no Uber-PUA. The difference between me and the women haters is that I know how to move on and pursue the women I get along with. I know that it's not productive to ***** and whine about people for no purpose other than to ***** and whine.
 
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Some women suck... Some women don't
Why do you want to censor us talking about the sucky one and only talk about the women you have placed on a pedestal
 
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Some women suck... Some women don't
Why do you want to censor us talking about the sucky one and only talk about the women you have placed on a pedestal
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Interesting that you spoke on the polar opposite ways that guys could see women without mentioning a healthy medium. Was is that?
 
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PheonixUK said:
Some women suck... Some women don't
Why do you want to censor us talking about the sucky one and only talk about the women you have placed on a pedestal
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Simple. The goal of this forum is to teach men to improve their success with women. The woman hating rants are counter productive to that goal.

As Francisco d'Anconia pointed out, you have to find a middle ground in your attitude towards women.
 
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Why are half the threads complaining about hors??

Because hors "suck" literally and figuratively speaking!!!! Wake up kid, this is the year 2007!!! Get out of The Matrix!!!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well I think a lot of it has to do with the majority of SoSuave still being virgins at age 25-44
 
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