"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why are half the threads here about "Why women suck"?

comic_relief

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God_0f_Getting_Laid said:
hahaha. yeah, quote a troll for support. you have lost it man, at least you used to be a decent troll.
idiots,

two idiots argue and nothing is accomplished.

mods, close the damn thread.

comic_relief
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jariel said:
My theory: Many guys here would rather blame other people than accept their own faults and do something to change them.

That goes for men and women alike - lazy people love to b!tch!
Ahhh, it's not theory... Go ahead and say it, it's a fact.
 

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Because it's easier for a guy to complain about and blame women for all their problems than it is to take responsibility for the part they play in their own misfortune. If guys on here spent even a quarter of the time taking an honest look at their mistakes and poor choices that they do biotching about women they would realize that they would get much further in life by focusing on themselves. Afterall...the only person you can ever change is yourself...and that is and will always be the key to success.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Wyldfire said:
...the only person you can ever change is yourself...and that is and will always be the key to success.
Not everyone can manage that level of accountability.
 

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diplomatic_lies said:
It just seems a little...well, creepy. Half the forums are filled with threads crying about the negative aspects of women. For a while I thought this was the gay PUA forum.
Docs said:
A while being almost 5 years? :D
-Agreed.
Francisco d'Anconia said:
Personally, I see more camaraderie in this forum when guys come together to commiserate about the latest evil banshee who rebuffed them or took advantage of their AFC actions. Misery loves company.
Shiftkey said:
Women really aren't the b1tches a lot of guys here make them out to be unless you project yourself as someone those women want to avoid. Who do you think those women want to avoid? Bitter women haters maybe? It's a downward spiral.
Jariel said:
My theory: Many guys here would rather blame other people than accept their own faults and do something to change them.

That goes for men and women alike - lazy people love to b!tch!
Take notes noobies, these Uber-PUA's are too bathed in women to notice any annoying things they do. You too will one day reach this level of enlightenment.

Doods come on.. guys complain coz women are damn annoying.

Sometimes I wonder why we do it, heh.. That don't last long.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MuayThai said:
Take notes noobies, these Uber-PUA's are too bathed in women to notice any annoying things they do. You too will one day reach this level of enlightenment.

Doods come on.. guys complain coz women are damn annoying.

Sometimes I wonder why we do it, heh.. That don't last long.
Oh not at all. Women annoy me quite a bit. And I'm no Uber-PUA. The difference between me and the women haters is that I know how to move on and pursue the women I get along with. I know that it's not productive to ***** and whine about people for no purpose other than to ***** and whine.
 

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Some women suck... Some women don't
Why do you want to censor us talking about the sucky one and only talk about the women you have placed on a pedestal
 

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PheonixUK said:
Some women suck... Some women don't
Why do you want to censor us talking about the sucky one and only talk about the women you have placed on a pedestal
Interesting that you spoke on the polar opposite ways that guys could see women without mentioning a healthy medium. Was is that?
 

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PheonixUK said:
Some women suck... Some women don't
Why do you want to censor us talking about the sucky one and only talk about the women you have placed on a pedestal
Simple. The goal of this forum is to teach men to improve their success with women. The woman hating rants are counter productive to that goal.

As Francisco d'Anconia pointed out, you have to find a middle ground in your attitude towards women.
 
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Why are half the threads complaining about hors??

Because hors "suck" literally and figuratively speaking!!!! Wake up kid, this is the year 2007!!! Get out of The Matrix!!!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well I think a lot of it has to do with the majority of SoSuave still being virgins at age 25-44
 
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