comic_relief
Master Don Juan
idiots,God_0f_Getting_Laid said:
two idiots argue and nothing is accomplished.
mods, close the damn thread.
comic_relief
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why are half the threads here about "Why women suck"?
- Thread starter diplomatic_lies
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two idiots argue and nothing is accomplished.
mods, close the damn thread.
comic_relief
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Ahhh, it's not theory... Go ahead and say it, it's a fact.Jariel said:
Because it's easier for a guy to complain about and blame women for all their problems than it is to take responsibility for the part they play in their own misfortune. If guys on here spent even a quarter of the time taking an honest look at their mistakes and poor choices that they do biotching about women they would realize that they would get much further in life by focusing on themselves. Afterall...the only person you can ever change is yourself...and that is and will always be the key to success.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Not everyone can manage that level of accountability.Wyldfire said:
diplomatic_lies said:
Docs said:A while being almost 5 years?
-Agreed.
Francisco d'Anconia said:
Shiftkey said:
Take notes noobies, these Uber-PUA's are too bathed in women to notice any annoying things they do. You too will one day reach this level of enlightenment.Jariel said:
Doods come on.. guys complain coz women are damn annoying.
Sometimes I wonder why we do it, heh.. That don't last long.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Oh not at all. Women annoy me quite a bit. And I'm no Uber-PUA. The difference between me and the women haters is that I know how to move on and pursue the women I get along with. I know that it's not productive to ***** and whine about people for no purpose other than to ***** and whine.MuayThai said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Interesting that you spoke on the polar opposite ways that guys could see women without mentioning a healthy medium. Was is that?PheonixUK said:
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Simple. The goal of this forum is to teach men to improve their success with women. The woman hating rants are counter productive to that goal.PheonixUK said:
As Francisco d'Anconia pointed out, you have to find a middle ground in your attitude towards women.
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Why are half the threads complaining about hors??
Because hors "suck" literally and figuratively speaking!!!! Wake up kid, this is the year 2007!!! Get out of The Matrix!!!!!
Because hors "suck" literally and figuratively speaking!!!! Wake up kid, this is the year 2007!!! Get out of The Matrix!!!!!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.