"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who's now part of the mg t o w movement

eli77

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Seems like with the spread of social media forms Reddit is the new counter culture I would say
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Plinco

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Seems like with the spread of social media forms Reddit is the new counter culture I would say
There's a lot of different counter cultures out there now. There's counter cultures to counter cultures.

My take on the men going their own way, like every other philosophy out there it suffers from it's own bias, but some parts of it are useful.
 

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MGOTW are losers.

I can kind of understanding not wanting to get married, but completely cutting women out of your life is loser ****. You can easily have a stress-free, fun relationship with a woman if you don't act like a *****.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Plinco

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MGOTW are losers.
I think this is true in many cases, but sometimes it is wise in a person's development to avoid partners. Some tidbits from MGTOW are useful in some circumstances. Context says a lot.
 

Woujo

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I think this is true in many cases, but sometimes it is wise in a person's development to avoid partners. Some tidbits from MGTOW are useful in some circumstances. Context says a lot.
Eh, its probably not worth digging through the **** to find a few diamonds.
 

zekko

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I can kind of understanding not wanting to get married, but completely cutting women out of your life is loser ****. You can easily have a stress-free, fun relationship with a woman if you don't act like a *****.
Some people claim being MGTOW doesn't entail cutting women out of your life. I wish they'd get their definition down.
If you're going to go MGTOW might as well own it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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derby1

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MGOTW are losers.
I went through a period where I got 10 women out (bare in mind the investment this takes with these wishy washy lunatics)

I didnt get a lay from one of them, at least 7 had an ex in the picture, the other 3 were trash.

Point being Im not a loser, but it put me off women for around 2 years, I can see where these guys are coming from, especially with child maintenance in the USA
 

lost_blackbird

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Being fun and exciting and knowing how to converse and turn women on via text and in person.
And those of us that don't and will never have those qualities?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hamurabimbi

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I have a friend who is MGTOW. At least unofficially. He got divorce r@ped. I think he occasionally bangs girls well below his SMV, but for the most part has no interest in women.
 

FlexpertHamilton

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Seems like with the spread of social media forms Reddit is the new counter culture I would say
Lmao reddit is the opposite of counter culture, it's all hiveminded leftist simps who do nothing but complain about their life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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