Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
There's a lot of different counter cultures out there now. There's counter cultures to counter cultures.Seems like with the spread of social media forms Reddit is the new counter culture I would say
Very saturated redditWhat is reddit a counter culture of? Being a well adjusted and functional member of society?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Agree. MGTOW is a fast growing segment as male sexlessness rates continue to climb.MGOTW are losers.
I think this is true in many cases, but sometimes it is wise in a person's development to avoid partners. Some tidbits from MGTOW are useful in some circumstances. Context says a lot.MGOTW are losers.
Eh, its probably not worth digging through the **** to find a few diamonds.I think this is true in many cases, but sometimes it is wise in a person's development to avoid partners. Some tidbits from MGTOW are useful in some circumstances. Context says a lot.
Some people claim being MGTOW doesn't entail cutting women out of your life. I wish they'd get their definition down.I can kind of understanding not wanting to get married, but completely cutting women out of your life is loser ****. You can easily have a stress-free, fun relationship with a woman if you don't act like a *****.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What do you prescribe to?I don't prescribe to any of that nonsense.
I went through a period where I got 10 women out (bare in mind the investment this takes with these wishy washy lunatics)MGOTW are losers.
Being fun and exciting and knowing how to converse and turn women on via text and in person.What do you prescribe to?
And those of us that don't and will never have those qualities?Being fun and exciting and knowing how to converse and turn women on via text and in person.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You seriously think that you can't learn anything new and no women will ever be attracted to you?And those of us that don't and will never have those qualities?
Yes. He does.Does he seem happy?
Lmao reddit is the opposite of counter culture, it's all hiveminded leftist simps who do nothing but complain about their life.Seems like with the spread of social media forms Reddit is the new counter culture I would say
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.