"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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getready

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Sounds good

Location: Providence, RI
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Goal: Make more friends, kill anxiety, become a better man, become a better talker, close
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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daftsavage

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I'm in.

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Goal: build the harem
 

MrJibbles

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Yessir.

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Goal: Gain confidence/self-esteem, lose the v-card, destroy introversion/social anxiety
 

Masculinity

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I was in a competition like this on here before called GLADIATORS (credit AAAgent) and came up in one of the top places. I want to give this another shot and strive for the very top of the pyramid. Count me in :rockon:

Location: Los Angeles
Name: Robyn
Age: 22
Status: Undergraduate student
Height: 6' 0"
Weight: 185
Goals: Regain confidence I lost after LTR break-up, lose AA, & have options.

PS: Man, I wish I would have known where some of you guys are from when I lived in Boston. There are many of you here who live in New England. Anyone
in Southern California? I have met a few people from this site and they are of great interchangeable support.
 

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I know we're gonna focus on the DJ Bible and the relevant exercises for the bootcamp, but I've noticed a lot of people here have approach anxiety to different degrees (myself included, I'm on the final stages of getting rid of approach anxiety).

Saw this video, and thought it might help, it's by a group of guys who made a youtube channel called simple pickup:


Scared of Talking to Girls? - Simple Tips


When the DJ Bible was first made, video resources like youtube weren't around. Without bombarding this thread with loads of videos and derailing it, I think it's not a bad idea to share interesting and potentially helpful videos in this bootcamp thread.

What do you think of the video guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheMale

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jonjaper
you got a great idea of bombarding the thread with video ...

so when we start ?
and where is the thread of our session ?
 

Super Hero

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hallelujah !! Im so in. We must , we should and we will do this. We are Lions.

Location: India
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Goal: Improve how I relate with women, dissolving anxiety and being Great.
 

JonJaper

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TheMale said:
jonjaper
you got a great idea of bombarding the thread with video ...

so when we start ?
and where is the thread of our session ?
Lol...I said it might be a good idea to post videos that might be helpful to the bootcamp without bombarding/derailing the thread.

i.e. post video links that are relevant to bootcamp lessons (confidence, reducing approach anxiety etc) but don't go overboard.
 

TheMale

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forgot the NOT between 'of' and 'bombarding' :p

my bad
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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R

Rubato

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Anyone making the new topic, so we can start updating and stuff ;) ?
I was just about to ask that. I'm going out after I finish my genetics project. If nothing is up, I will post my FR in my journal. I'm also going to be wiring myself up with a mic and digital audio recorder so I can have an objective source to analyze all of this stuff from. I will post them to the purevolume account I have posted some of my music under for you all to scrutinize ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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