Which girl should I go for?

[brad jarry]

I'll try to make a long story short. Basically, I've liked this girl for about two weeks (We're in high school). At first, I was really pressed to get her attention and talked to her. Then I re-read some of the Don Juan bible and I got back to my senses and stop caring as much, but nonetheless, I still like her. We've been texting for about a week and it's been getting better. At first, she was boring and not interested, I guess, but now things are fine, although she's still a little hard to dissect.

I really like her, for a reason I might type later. But I told a few of my friends and they all tell me different things about her. Apparently, she's pansexual, already messes with another guy, and keeps a few guys around as sides. I know the pansexual part is true, I thought she was just bi, but either way, she's never even dated a girl or anything. I don't know if the rest is true, but despite all that, I still like her. After all, I don't see any of her supposed "sides" as competition.

But then last night, out of nowhere, this girl I used to like back in April hit me up and we started talking cuz we hadn't talked in months after a misunderstanding. Basically, we agreed on picking up where we left off (Because we both liked each other), but I don't know what I was thinking! I guess I was just in the zone while we're talking and figured, hey why not?
But I still like the first girl! Regardless of what people say about her, I still see us being a good couple. And I know she's loyal because of her exes.

But anyway yeah, I don't know what to do because I still want/like the first girl but now I've agreed to start talking to this other girl. Should I still try to go after the girl I want? Or should I forget about her and move on to the other?
I know the first girl has her problems (That of course, can be worked on with the right help) and the second girl is great, but I really don't know.

I know this was long, but any help is appreciated. Thank you.

 

[dude99]

Date both. Take neither of them seriously.
There has been no relationship with either of them yet. Your level of giving a fack should be zero. They haven't earned it yet.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Go for the one who is into you.

 

[RangerMIke]

@dude99 and @mrgoodstuff are spot on. Date them both and the one that works hardest to get your attention wins the prize of spending more time with you. Have the mindset that you are the prize.

 

[Staticus]

I agree with the boys up top. Although, with the info you provided of the second girl I wouldn't put a whole lot of energy into her being as you already had a situation come up in what seems to be a months time (could be wrong but you just said April and I don't know the situation). The first girl seems like a good F buddy.

 

[Magotrox]

Like Pook said: "Go for Many, for go for none." To me, you are putting to much value in those girls. You appear to be a little infatuated. Calm down. Go for both. Go for others too. You're young. There is a lot to know out there. Build up your experience. To find a good girl, you first need to learn how to choose. Game on!