As many already know this girl said she wanted to bond with me. I'm cool with this it's just that theres nothing to do in my city. Idk what to do. Where should we hang out at. Can you list some ideas for us to do. (Note that this girl isn't my gf......yet)
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Where should we hang out
- Thread starter rkc09
- Start date
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mastacheef
Don Juan
what city do you live in???
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
her casa
tu casa
minigolf
pool hall
tu casa
minigolf
pool hall
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mastacheef
Don Juan
movies is a good 2nd date, you can't really bond in a movie on the first date 
bowling is good, pool hall and mini golf as spicy stated, the park, etc.
bowling is good, pool hall and mini golf as spicy stated, the park, etc.mastacheef
Don Juan
doesn't mean you can't have a date but basically same thing, if you want to bond do something where you can enjoy what your doing while at the same time talking with her, can't talk in movies ya know? unless you like to be that obnoxious d0uche bag aha
but basically same thing, if you want to bond do something where you can enjoy what your doing while at the same time talking with her, can't talk in movies ya know? unless you like to be that obnoxious d0uche bag aha"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
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who's got cooler parents that wouldn't mind yall being alone? figure that out and you know who's house to go to. personally i always try to go to the girl's house cuz my mom's the type that would bust in on something with koolaid and rice krispy squares. lol
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Tell her you got something so awesome she needs to see it
lol
lol
oh yea that could be a problem cuz yall aren't "together" yet huh? well then i'd vote against the hanging out at each other's houses just yet. go do something fun. things that have already been listed. i'm sure yall have ice skating in ohio. mini golf, they have that everywhere. find something like that. what i've noticed, especially in hs, is that girls want FUN out of a relationship more than anything. take her somewhere that will be fun.
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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
yea but theres seriously nothing to do here. The only things I can think of is
Movies
Mall (IDK if this is a good choice)
Bowling (But it's crazy there)
HS sports Games (But their away this week)
Youth Activity at our church
Mansfield is a small city.....
Movies
Mall (IDK if this is a good choice)
Bowling (But it's crazy there)
HS sports Games (But their away this week)
Youth Activity at our church
Mansfield is a small city.....
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
mall
take her into a store
then mess with her
take her into a store
then mess with her
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
I totally am
as long as you keep it fun
Use your creative mind
You really should watch deangelo's ****y comedy
as long as you keep it fun
Use your creative mind
You really should watch deangelo's ****y comedy
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