As many already know this girl said she wanted to bond with me. I'm cool with this it's just that theres nothing to do in my city. Idk what to do. Where should we hang out at. Can you list some ideas for us to do. (Note that this girl isn't my gf......yet)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Where should we hang out
- Thread starter rkc09
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
mastacheef
Don Juan
what city do you live in???
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
her casa
tu casa
minigolf
pool hall
tu casa
minigolf
pool hall
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mastacheef
Don Juan
movies is a good 2nd date, you can't really bond in a movie on the first date 
bowling is good, pool hall and mini golf as spicy stated, the park, etc.
bowling is good, pool hall and mini golf as spicy stated, the park, etc.mastacheef
Don Juan
doesn't mean you can't have a date but basically same thing, if you want to bond do something where you can enjoy what your doing while at the same time talking with her, can't talk in movies ya know? unless you like to be that obnoxious d0uche bag aha
but basically same thing, if you want to bond do something where you can enjoy what your doing while at the same time talking with her, can't talk in movies ya know? unless you like to be that obnoxious d0uche bag aha"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
who's got cooler parents that wouldn't mind yall being alone? figure that out and you know who's house to go to. personally i always try to go to the girl's house cuz my mom's the type that would bust in on something with koolaid and rice krispy squares. lol
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Tell her you got something so awesome she needs to see it
lol
lol
oh yea that could be a problem cuz yall aren't "together" yet huh? well then i'd vote against the hanging out at each other's houses just yet. go do something fun. things that have already been listed. i'm sure yall have ice skating in ohio. mini golf, they have that everywhere. find something like that. what i've noticed, especially in hs, is that girls want FUN out of a relationship more than anything. take her somewhere that will be fun.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
yea but theres seriously nothing to do here. The only things I can think of is
Movies
Mall (IDK if this is a good choice)
Bowling (But it's crazy there)
HS sports Games (But their away this week)
Youth Activity at our church
Mansfield is a small city.....
Movies
Mall (IDK if this is a good choice)
Bowling (But it's crazy there)
HS sports Games (But their away this week)
Youth Activity at our church
Mansfield is a small city.....
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
mall
take her into a store
then mess with her
take her into a store
then mess with her
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
I totally am
as long as you keep it fun
Use your creative mind
You really should watch deangelo's ****y comedy
as long as you keep it fun
Use your creative mind
You really should watch deangelo's ****y comedy
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.