"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Where should we hang out

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As many already know this girl said she wanted to bond with me. I'm cool with this it's just that theres nothing to do in my city. Idk what to do. Where should we hang out at. Can you list some ideas for us to do. (Note that this girl isn't my gf......yet)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok thanks. Lucky I'm in spanish 3 so I kno what u mean. Is the movies a good place?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well it's not a date it's more like us just hangin out. Remember shes not my gf.
 

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doesn't mean you can't have a date :) but basically same thing, if you want to bond do something where you can enjoy what your doing while at the same time talking with her, can't talk in movies ya know? unless you like to be that obnoxious d0uche bag aha
 

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something you're really good at. i took my gf to the batting cages (i play baseball) she was amazed that i even touch the balls (haha immature joke) coming in at 80+mph.
 

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Okay, so then should I invite her to my casa or casa? But to be honest like I said there's not much to do around here?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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who's got cooler parents that wouldn't mind yall being alone? figure that out and you know who's house to go to. personally i always try to go to the girl's house cuz my mom's the type that would bust in on something with koolaid and rice krispy squares. lol
 

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My parents are cool but I think my mom would do the same thing. But how do I invite myself to her house. Can't just say "Hey let me comeover your house so we can watch a movie".
 

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oh yea that could be a problem cuz yall aren't "together" yet huh? well then i'd vote against the hanging out at each other's houses just yet. go do something fun. things that have already been listed. i'm sure yall have ice skating in ohio. mini golf, they have that everywhere. find something like that. what i've noticed, especially in hs, is that girls want FUN out of a relationship more than anything. take her somewhere that will be fun.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yea but theres seriously nothing to do here. The only things I can think of is


Movies
Mall (IDK if this is a good choice)
Bowling (But it's crazy there)
HS sports Games (But their away this week)
Youth Activity at our church


Mansfield is a small city.....
 

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R u sure that it is a good idea to hang out with a potential GF at the mall?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

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