As many already know this girl said she wanted to bond with me. I'm cool with this it's just that theres nothing to do in my city. Idk what to do. Where should we hang out at. Can you list some ideas for us to do. (Note that this girl isn't my gf......yet)
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
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Where should we hang out
- Thread starter rkc09
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mastacheef
Don Juan
what city do you live in???
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
her casa
tu casa
minigolf
pool hall
tu casa
minigolf
pool hall
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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mastacheef
Don Juan
movies is a good 2nd date, you can't really bond in a movie on the first date 
bowling is good, pool hall and mini golf as spicy stated, the park, etc.
bowling is good, pool hall and mini golf as spicy stated, the park, etc.mastacheef
Don Juan
doesn't mean you can't have a date but basically same thing, if you want to bond do something where you can enjoy what your doing while at the same time talking with her, can't talk in movies ya know? unless you like to be that obnoxious d0uche bag aha
but basically same thing, if you want to bond do something where you can enjoy what your doing while at the same time talking with her, can't talk in movies ya know? unless you like to be that obnoxious d0uche bag aha"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
who's got cooler parents that wouldn't mind yall being alone? figure that out and you know who's house to go to. personally i always try to go to the girl's house cuz my mom's the type that would bust in on something with koolaid and rice krispy squares. lol
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Tell her you got something so awesome she needs to see it
lol
lol
oh yea that could be a problem cuz yall aren't "together" yet huh? well then i'd vote against the hanging out at each other's houses just yet. go do something fun. things that have already been listed. i'm sure yall have ice skating in ohio. mini golf, they have that everywhere. find something like that. what i've noticed, especially in hs, is that girls want FUN out of a relationship more than anything. take her somewhere that will be fun.
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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
yea but theres seriously nothing to do here. The only things I can think of is
Movies
Mall (IDK if this is a good choice)
Bowling (But it's crazy there)
HS sports Games (But their away this week)
Youth Activity at our church
Mansfield is a small city.....
Movies
Mall (IDK if this is a good choice)
Bowling (But it's crazy there)
HS sports Games (But their away this week)
Youth Activity at our church
Mansfield is a small city.....
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
mall
take her into a store
then mess with her
take her into a store
then mess with her
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
I totally am
as long as you keep it fun
Use your creative mind
You really should watch deangelo's ****y comedy
as long as you keep it fun
Use your creative mind
You really should watch deangelo's ****y comedy
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.