thatdude156
Don Juan
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- May 22, 2012
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So where do you guys game? Personally my favorite place is the lunchroom. There are tons of people and an endless number of choices.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Did you not read what I wrote? "Unless I'm finished..."Roumie said:That's a sh!t attitude to have. You're basically limiting the amount of pvssy you could have. Opportunity is opportunity. I don't see a point in wasting any because "I'm too much of a workout meathead to talk to these b!tches at the gym" Talk in between sets or exercises or even after the workout.
Would you ignore all "b!tches" when in class? Of course not. You talk in between note taking or other work.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dude you literally sound like the biggest douche. Don't get worked up, I'm just insulting you because I think you're stupid. Have you ever even been in a gym?Roumie said:@Danzy
Don't get so worked up over a stranger on the internet. Yes, I insulted your point of view & mentality because I think they're stupid. Relax a bit, I'm not here to argue and insult strangers.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This.:crackup:Jack Wealthy said:Dude you literally sound like the biggest douche. Don't get worked up, I'm just insulting you because I think you're stupid. Have you ever even been in a gym?
(self rate) solid flame 10/10.