thatdude156
Don Juan
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- May 22, 2012
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So where do you guys game? Personally my favorite place is the lunchroom. There are tons of people and an endless number of choices.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Did you not read what I wrote? "Unless I'm finished..."Roumie said:That's a sh!t attitude to have. You're basically limiting the amount of pvssy you could have. Opportunity is opportunity. I don't see a point in wasting any because "I'm too much of a workout meathead to talk to these b!tches at the gym" Talk in between sets or exercises or even after the workout.
Would you ignore all "b!tches" when in class? Of course not. You talk in between note taking or other work.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dude you literally sound like the biggest douche. Don't get worked up, I'm just insulting you because I think you're stupid. Have you ever even been in a gym?Roumie said:@Danzy
Don't get so worked up over a stranger on the internet. Yes, I insulted your point of view & mentality because I think they're stupid. Relax a bit, I'm not here to argue and insult strangers.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This.:crackup:Jack Wealthy said:Dude you literally sound like the biggest douche. Don't get worked up, I'm just insulting you because I think you're stupid. Have you ever even been in a gym?
(self rate) solid flame 10/10.