thatdude156
Don Juan
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- May 22, 2012
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So where do you guys game? Personally my favorite place is the lunchroom. There are tons of people and an endless number of choices.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Did you not read what I wrote? "Unless I'm finished..."Roumie said:That's a sh!t attitude to have. You're basically limiting the amount of pvssy you could have. Opportunity is opportunity. I don't see a point in wasting any because "I'm too much of a workout meathead to talk to these b!tches at the gym" Talk in between sets or exercises or even after the workout.
Would you ignore all "b!tches" when in class? Of course not. You talk in between note taking or other work.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dude you literally sound like the biggest douche. Don't get worked up, I'm just insulting you because I think you're stupid. Have you ever even been in a gym?Roumie said:@Danzy
Don't get so worked up over a stranger on the internet. Yes, I insulted your point of view & mentality because I think they're stupid. Relax a bit, I'm not here to argue and insult strangers.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This.:crackup:Jack Wealthy said:Dude you literally sound like the biggest douche. Don't get worked up, I'm just insulting you because I think you're stupid. Have you ever even been in a gym?
(self rate) solid flame 10/10.