thatdude156
Don Juan
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- May 22, 2012
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So where do you guys game? Personally my favorite place is the lunchroom. There are tons of people and an endless number of choices.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Did you not read what I wrote? "Unless I'm finished..."Roumie said:That's a sh!t attitude to have. You're basically limiting the amount of pvssy you could have. Opportunity is opportunity. I don't see a point in wasting any because "I'm too much of a workout meathead to talk to these b!tches at the gym" Talk in between sets or exercises or even after the workout.
Would you ignore all "b!tches" when in class? Of course not. You talk in between note taking or other work.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dude you literally sound like the biggest douche. Don't get worked up, I'm just insulting you because I think you're stupid. Have you ever even been in a gym?Roumie said:@Danzy
Don't get so worked up over a stranger on the internet. Yes, I insulted your point of view & mentality because I think they're stupid. Relax a bit, I'm not here to argue and insult strangers.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This.:crackup:Jack Wealthy said:Dude you literally sound like the biggest douche. Don't get worked up, I'm just insulting you because I think you're stupid. Have you ever even been in a gym?
(self rate) solid flame 10/10.