When your in a relationship and "she has male friends" gay!

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Ok when your in a relationship and she has male friends.. tell her get rid of them. Or you dont want her. She will have this automatic response saying "oh we dont do anything hes just a friend" dont believe that ****. Those guys are just trying to **** your girlfriend. If she cant respect your decision. Get rid of her! If you let her have male friends. You might let her male friends screw her too. See the picture? If you let her do that your a wimp!
 

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That's not always the case. If she's with you, then you're the Alpha at that time.
 

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Ok when your in a relationship and she has male friends.. tell her get rid of them. Or you dont want her. She will have this automatic response saying "oh we dont do anything hes just a friend" dont believe that ****. Those guys are just trying to **** your girlfriend. If she cant respect your decision. Get rid of her! If you let her have male friends. You might let her male friends screw her too. See the picture? If you let her do that your a wimp!
She should not want to. If its something you have led from the beginning she should not want a circle of male orbiters.
 
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Only guys who are severely insecure would say something like that.
Wrong bro. To blanket that statement you do yourself disservice.
I see more insecure posts on this forum from guys smoke screening their confidence then this OP saying he wont tolerate orbiters.
The insecure men cant walk away when his respect and boundries are breached.

And he has a right to find a girl who will obey him.
 

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That's not always the case. If she's with you, then you're the Alpha at that time.
No... You need to meet some of the seattle soy based couples I've met. I have never seen such pathetic excuses for men. And you can tell they're miserable and repressing it too.
 

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Ok when your in a relationship and she has male friends.. tell her get rid of them. Or you dont want her. She will have this automatic response saying "oh we dont do anything hes just a friend" dont believe that ****. Those guys are just trying to **** your girlfriend. If she cant respect your decision. Get rid of her! If you let her have male friends. You might let her male friends screw her too. See the picture? If you let her do that your a wimp!
You make no sense or you need to find the worst looking women that have the worst attitudes and date them.

ANY attractive woman that has any value will have men hitting on her and trying to get with her even if she is in a relationship.

You want to be jealous? She will dump you. You want to give her an ultimatum? She will dump you.

You need to learn how to not care and show your severe insecurity or you will never keep an attractive woman with value around for very long at all.
 

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You make no sense or you need to find the worst looking women that have the worst attitudes and date them.

ANY attractive woman that has any value will have men hitting on her and trying to get with her even if she is in a relationship.

You want to be jealous? She will dump you. You want to give her an ultimatum? She will dump you.

You need to learn how to not care and show your severe insecurity or you will never keep an attractive woman with value around for very long at all.
Knowing guys are going to hit on your beautiful women and her hanging out with a "guy friend" are not the same. In my opinion
If that's what a guy has as a boundary then fine. Yes she will get hit on but asking her not to do 1 on 1s with the opposite sex if it isnt her career is within the scope of reason.
 

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Unless it’s a confirmed ex or FWB of hers My approach to a GF talking to other men is I never out right tell her “No don’t talk to him”. But I question her about who he is and why she still needs to remain in contact with him. I had some of those arguments with my last GF even prior to the last argument that I eventually dumped her for. Prior to that I had told her “Only you can decide if guy X adds enough value to your life to keep talking to him. I’m not going to tell you you can’t, I’m just going to tell you to make your decision and own it.” Meaning that if she continued to talk to other guys that I didn’t approve of, I was going to talk to other women. For the most part she quit talking to a lot of her orbiters. But at the very end me catching her talking to a guy that she had voluntarily said she would never talk to again was ultimately what I dumped her for.
 
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Ok when your in a relationship and she has male friends.. tell her get rid of them. Or you dont want her. She will have this automatic response saying "oh we dont do anything hes just a friend" dont believe that ****. Those guys are just trying to **** your girlfriend. If she cant respect your decision. Get rid of her! If you let her have male friends. You might let her male friends screw her too. See the picture? If you let her do that your a wimp!
OP,

I say this respectfully, but your post and attitude is extremely jealous, possessive, controlling, and of the scarcity mindset. So you get to pick and choose her friends now, right? You don't own her. Part of your "agreement" when dating or in a LTR is to give her the benefit of the doubt until you have solid reasons to do otherwise. If you don't like it, stay single and you'll have nothing to worry about.

Being of the jealous, possessive, controlling, and scarcity mindset are female or beta male (or worse) traits. Always thinking someone is going to steal her away.

The sign of a true confident, strong, DJ is to allow her to have her own friends. Encourage her. If she f*ucks up, THEN you drop the hammer. This is your mindset because as a DJ you have others waiting in the wings and you're an in-demand, strong, confident guy. And DJs do not display weak minded behavior, get it?

My ex had a couple guy friends. One was a 55 year old attorney we both knew from our gym. As a guy, he was probably a HB3, but very smart and a nice guy. I actually liked talking to him. I felt ZERO threats from him. I actually could care less if she hung out with him. He was like her girlfriend but with XY chromosomes. If hypothetically at some point, she chose the HB3 beta guy who was 25 years older than me, great, she did me a favor. I had/have female friends I would keep in touch with too. Some I've known for 25 years. Big F'ing deal.

She was also friends with her ex. He also still worked out at our gym. Maybe he was a man version of a HB5. Very short, hairy but funny as hell. I liked talking to him too. I disagree with everyone who says NEVER LET HER BE FRIENDS WITH HER EX!!! Look, ex's are ex's for a reason. Unless the woman is low quality, which is YOUR fault for dating or LTR'ing her then, you're the one who's with her and f*ucking her, right? Anything less is just a jealous, scarcity mindset, like a female or man who thinks his woman will jump because he's not good enough or man enough to keep her. Personally, I just don't get romantically involved with women I cannot trust or have too many flags--problem solved. I'll f*uck them, but not "date" them.

OP, you need to re-calibrate and focus on your IDGAF and Abundance Mindset because your DJ game is slipping and self-limiting beliefs are taking over.

Good luck to you.

~Dash~
 
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Wrong bro. To blanket that statement you do yourself disservice.
I see more insecure posts on this forum from guys smoke screening their confidence then this OP saying he wont tolerate orbiters.
The insecure men cant walk away when his respect and boundries are breached.

And he has a right to find a girl who will obey him.
Yes we already know you are a narcissist so this post was expected from you. Let me rephrase that...if you want a healthy relationship you don't do this.
 

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Knowing guys are going to hit on your beautiful women and her hanging out with a "guy friend" are not the same. In my opinion
If that's what a guy has as a boundary then fine. Yes she will get hit on but asking her not to do 1 on 1s with the opposite sex if it isnt her career is within the scope of reason.
Not necessarily. And I will prove my point.

OP's selection process is terrible. He didnt know this chick had guy friends that she talked to before he was "in a relationship" with her? Bullshyte.
Ok when your in a relationship and she has male friends.. tell her get rid of them.
This is what OP said.

Go read my thread from last week. Your actions (or lack thereof) teach people how to treat you.

Should have never been a "relationship" to begin with. Pump and dump. If she starts chasing for a relationship under this kind of behavior you dont reward her with one. Use S&D when needed.

Its not hard like some of you guys make it out to be. You just keep putting yourselves in HORRIBLE positions with women.

Stop making it so hard on yourself.
 

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Yes we already know you are a narcissist so this post was expected from you. Let me rephrase that...if you want a healthy relationship you don't do this.
Let me clue you in on a bit of psychology fact.
Everyone has narcissism in them brother. Its the ones who deny it are the ones you should be weary of.

Read my post to Glass. Yet "your healthy relationship" speak will do nothing when she suddenly is "hanging out with her guy friends"
Honey its just girls and guys night out. Ill be back 3am if we dont go to
"Breakfast" lol
Your kidding yourself. Guy friends are satellites.
 

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OP's selection process is terrible. He didnt know this chick had guy friends that she talked to before he was "in a relationship" with her? Bullshyte.
Whether or not hes lying i can't say. Im speaking of the topic at hand. The way he expresses himself is on him.
 
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Let me clue you in on a bit of psychology fact.
Everyone has narcissism in them brother. Its the ones who deny it are the ones you should be weary of.

Read my post to Glass. Yet "your healthy relationship" speak will do nothing when she suddenly is "hanging out with her guy friends"
Honey its just girls and guys night out. Ill be back 3am if we dont go to
"Breakfast" lol
Your kidding yourself. Guy friends are satellites.
Its only disrespectful behavior if you allow it. Stop getting off topic. My response was at OP's 1st post.

Red flag #1 on here: Guys that say they are alpha and then act beta
Red flag #2 on here: Guys that say they are alpha and literally cant do anything or make any decisions on their own when it comes to how they allow people to treat them.

Selection process is not worth a shyte if someone is suddenly in a relationship with a chick who has all of these guy friends she hangs out with, or the guy is so beta he is just happy to have anyone around.

I rest my case.
 

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Should have never been a "relationship" to begin with. Pump and dump
This part is true. I did not remember his early thread. I wouldnt be LTR this women to begin with. "All my guy friend girls" are usually plate spinners themselves. No thanks.
Im thinking a lot of SS posters ebd up being the girls plate rather then the other way around LOL
 

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Its only disrespectful behavior if you allow it. Stop getting off topic. My response was at OP's 1st post.

Red flag #1 on here: Guys that say they are alpha and then act beta
Red flag #2 on here: Guys that say they are alpha and literally cant do anything or make any decisions on their own when it comes to how they allow people to treat them.

Selection process is not worth a shyte if someone is suddenly in a relationship with a chick who has all of these guy friends she hangs out with, or the guy is so beta he is just happy to have anyone around.

I rest my case.
Not shyt sherlock. Big talk for somone who cant leave exes in the past. Walk the walk Glass. I remember your post.
 
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