thelonewolflegend
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Do you just go there expect her to be there or do you like send reminder text say on way or ill be there later how do you do it usually j/w??
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
when you have date setup how do you guys confirm?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TheException
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Dont send a reminder text. Just show up. You will find often times that she will send YOU a confirmation text.
Woman with high interest...mark and circle the day when they have set up a date with a man they are attracted to. If she "forgets".....she was not attracted.
Woman with high interest...mark and circle the day when they have set up a date with a man they are attracted to. If she "forgets".....she was not attracted.
thelonewolflegend
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how bout when your telling them all they respond with is oh ok and im like ok 7pm so and so and they wont reply?
TheException
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Thats not setting up a date....thelonewolflegend said:
Setting up a date is making concrete plans. A day, a time, a place, and a confirmation by both people. If this is the girl you are asking about.....she does not sound interested and I would make other plans.
thelonewolflegend
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well I just told them other 2 get together the days they said that's cool I just didn't tell them where and when im gonna tell them that day I think that's better idea really?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
sylvester the cat
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if they dont reply to your set up then that is not a date set.
VladPatton
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Always say the place, day, and time, and confirm. You gotta lead, man. Even if you never get there an decide to do something else.
Confirm 2-3 hrs ahead by saying "I'll be 15 mins late/early instead of 00:00". If you hear nothing and the time is getting close, kiss it goodbye, she's a flaker. Make other plans or go to bed.
Confirm 2-3 hrs ahead by saying "I'll be 15 mins late/early instead of 00:00". If you hear nothing and the time is getting close, kiss it goodbye, she's a flaker. Make other plans or go to bed.
Dgwizdal
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"Wear black"
gravityeyelids
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Christ, man. Use punctuation. I had to read everything you said like three times....thelonewolflegend said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.