thelonewolflegend
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Do you just go there expect her to be there or do you like send reminder text say on way or ill be there later how do you do it usually j/w??
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
when you have date setup how do you guys confirm?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TheException
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Dont send a reminder text. Just show up. You will find often times that she will send YOU a confirmation text.
Woman with high interest...mark and circle the day when they have set up a date with a man they are attracted to. If she "forgets".....she was not attracted.
Woman with high interest...mark and circle the day when they have set up a date with a man they are attracted to. If she "forgets".....she was not attracted.
thelonewolflegend
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how bout when your telling them all they respond with is oh ok and im like ok 7pm so and so and they wont reply?
TheException
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Thats not setting up a date....thelonewolflegend said:
Setting up a date is making concrete plans. A day, a time, a place, and a confirmation by both people. If this is the girl you are asking about.....she does not sound interested and I would make other plans.
thelonewolflegend
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well I just told them other 2 get together the days they said that's cool I just didn't tell them where and when im gonna tell them that day I think that's better idea really?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
sylvester the cat
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if they dont reply to your set up then that is not a date set.
VladPatton
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Always say the place, day, and time, and confirm. You gotta lead, man. Even if you never get there an decide to do something else.
Confirm 2-3 hrs ahead by saying "I'll be 15 mins late/early instead of 00:00". If you hear nothing and the time is getting close, kiss it goodbye, she's a flaker. Make other plans or go to bed.
Confirm 2-3 hrs ahead by saying "I'll be 15 mins late/early instead of 00:00". If you hear nothing and the time is getting close, kiss it goodbye, she's a flaker. Make other plans or go to bed.
Dgwizdal
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"Wear black"
gravityeyelids
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Christ, man. Use punctuation. I had to read everything you said like three times....thelonewolflegend said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.