thelonewolflegend
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Do you just go there expect her to be there or do you like send reminder text say on way or ill be there later how do you do it usually j/w??
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
when you have date setup how do you guys confirm?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TheException
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Dont send a reminder text. Just show up. You will find often times that she will send YOU a confirmation text.
Woman with high interest...mark and circle the day when they have set up a date with a man they are attracted to. If she "forgets".....she was not attracted.
Woman with high interest...mark and circle the day when they have set up a date with a man they are attracted to. If she "forgets".....she was not attracted.
thelonewolflegend
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how bout when your telling them all they respond with is oh ok and im like ok 7pm so and so and they wont reply?
TheException
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Thats not setting up a date....thelonewolflegend said:
Setting up a date is making concrete plans. A day, a time, a place, and a confirmation by both people. If this is the girl you are asking about.....she does not sound interested and I would make other plans.
thelonewolflegend
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well I just told them other 2 get together the days they said that's cool I just didn't tell them where and when im gonna tell them that day I think that's better idea really?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
sylvester the cat
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if they dont reply to your set up then that is not a date set.
VladPatton
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Always say the place, day, and time, and confirm. You gotta lead, man. Even if you never get there an decide to do something else.
Confirm 2-3 hrs ahead by saying "I'll be 15 mins late/early instead of 00:00". If you hear nothing and the time is getting close, kiss it goodbye, she's a flaker. Make other plans or go to bed.
Confirm 2-3 hrs ahead by saying "I'll be 15 mins late/early instead of 00:00". If you hear nothing and the time is getting close, kiss it goodbye, she's a flaker. Make other plans or go to bed.
Dgwizdal
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"Wear black"
gravityeyelids
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Christ, man. Use punctuation. I had to read everything you said like three times....thelonewolflegend said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.