Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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when you have date setup how do you guys confirm?

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Do you just go there expect her to be there or do you like send reminder text say on way or ill be there later how do you do it usually j/w??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dont send a reminder text. Just show up. You will find often times that she will send YOU a confirmation text.

Woman with high interest...mark and circle the day when they have set up a date with a man they are attracted to. If she "forgets".....she was not attracted.
 
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how bout when your telling them all they respond with is oh ok and im like ok 7pm so and so and they wont reply?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
how bout when your telling them all they respond with is oh ok and im like ok 7pm so and so and they wont reply?
Thats not setting up a date....

Setting up a date is making concrete plans. A day, a time, a place, and a confirmation by both people. If this is the girl you are asking about.....she does not sound interested and I would make other plans.
 
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well I just told them other 2 get together the days they said that's cool I just didn't tell them where and when im gonna tell them that day I think that's better idea really?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if they dont reply to your set up then that is not a date set.
 

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Always say the place, day, and time, and confirm. You gotta lead, man. Even if you never get there an decide to do something else.

Confirm 2-3 hrs ahead by saying "I'll be 15 mins late/early instead of 00:00". If you hear nothing and the time is getting close, kiss it goodbye, she's a flaker. Make other plans or go to bed.
 

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I call her 25 mins before to see what time she is heading to the location. I dont leave my house until I hear her voice say she is on her way.
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Do you just go there expect her to be there or do you like send reminder text say on way or ill be there later how do you do it usually j/w??

how bout when your telling them all they respond with is oh ok and im like ok 7pm so and so and they wont reply?

well I just told them other 2 get together the days they said that's cool I just didn't tell them where and when im gonna tell them that day I think that's better idea really?
Christ, man. Use punctuation. I had to read everything you said like three times....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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