_sideways_
Master Don Juan
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How do u stop the feelz.. ..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
when you get the feelz
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
parkthebus
Master Don Juan
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Start pursuing another female
icantgetlaid
Senior Don Juan
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keep spinning plates ... it helps numb you to the feelz ... and makes you more attractive to the women you have the "feelz" for .. which is crazy ironic but the truth
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
you cant be a don jaun and at the same time get "feelz" for women
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Objectify them
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
GFTOW
dustmuffin
Master Don Juan
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When you get the feelz smack it down. Away evil feelz! If you don't have plates. Think about her negatives. Chew on that for awhile. Then go out and get another plate!
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Sad but true. As a man you are capable of controlling your emotions... If you start feeling too much for a women, not only does it hurt you, but it hurts her as well, because when you become this little puppy dog following her around, she will not like you. You are doing her a favor by acting like a man... even if she thinks you are being mean. Don't believe all the BS in current movies, commercials, and media, women are not attracted to men that fawn all over them. If they want to be worshiped and loved unconditionally, they will get a dog.
When they want a man, they WANT A MAN.