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Master Don Juan
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How do u stop the feelz.. ..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
when you get the feelz
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- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
parkthebus
Master Don Juan
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Start pursuing another female
icantgetlaid
Senior Don Juan
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keep spinning plates ... it helps numb you to the feelz ... and makes you more attractive to the women you have the "feelz" for .. which is crazy ironic but the truth
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
you cant be a don jaun and at the same time get "feelz" for women
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Objectify them
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
GFTOW
dustmuffin
Master Don Juan
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When you get the feelz smack it down. Away evil feelz! If you don't have plates. Think about her negatives. Chew on that for awhile. Then go out and get another plate!
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Sad but true. As a man you are capable of controlling your emotions... If you start feeling too much for a women, not only does it hurt you, but it hurts her as well, because when you become this little puppy dog following her around, she will not like you. You are doing her a favor by acting like a man... even if she thinks you are being mean. Don't believe all the BS in current movies, commercials, and media, women are not attracted to men that fawn all over them. If they want to be worshiped and loved unconditionally, they will get a dog.
When they want a man, they WANT A MAN.