_sideways_
Master Don Juan
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How do u stop the feelz.. ..
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
when you get the feelz
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
parkthebus
Master Don Juan
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Start pursuing another female
icantgetlaid
Senior Don Juan
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keep spinning plates ... it helps numb you to the feelz ... and makes you more attractive to the women you have the "feelz" for .. which is crazy ironic but the truth
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
you cant be a don jaun and at the same time get "feelz" for women
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Objectify them
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
GFTOW
dustmuffin
Master Don Juan
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When you get the feelz smack it down. Away evil feelz! If you don't have plates. Think about her negatives. Chew on that for awhile. Then go out and get another plate!
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Sad but true. As a man you are capable of controlling your emotions... If you start feeling too much for a women, not only does it hurt you, but it hurts her as well, because when you become this little puppy dog following her around, she will not like you. You are doing her a favor by acting like a man... even if she thinks you are being mean. Don't believe all the BS in current movies, commercials, and media, women are not attracted to men that fawn all over them. If they want to be worshiped and loved unconditionally, they will get a dog.
When they want a man, they WANT A MAN.