_sideways_
Master Don Juan
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How do u stop the feelz.. ..
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
when you get the feelz
- Thread starter _sideways_
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
parkthebus
Master Don Juan
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Start pursuing another female
icantgetlaid
Senior Don Juan
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keep spinning plates ... it helps numb you to the feelz ... and makes you more attractive to the women you have the "feelz" for .. which is crazy ironic but the truth
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
you cant be a don jaun and at the same time get "feelz" for women
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Objectify them
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
GFTOW
dustmuffin
Master Don Juan
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When you get the feelz smack it down. Away evil feelz! If you don't have plates. Think about her negatives. Chew on that for awhile. Then go out and get another plate!
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Sad but true. As a man you are capable of controlling your emotions... If you start feeling too much for a women, not only does it hurt you, but it hurts her as well, because when you become this little puppy dog following her around, she will not like you. You are doing her a favor by acting like a man... even if she thinks you are being mean. Don't believe all the BS in current movies, commercials, and media, women are not attracted to men that fawn all over them. If they want to be worshiped and loved unconditionally, they will get a dog.
When they want a man, they WANT A MAN.