_sideways_
Master Don Juan
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How do u stop the feelz.. ..
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
when you get the feelz
- Thread starter _sideways_
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
parkthebus
Master Don Juan
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Start pursuing another female
icantgetlaid
Senior Don Juan
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keep spinning plates ... it helps numb you to the feelz ... and makes you more attractive to the women you have the "feelz" for .. which is crazy ironic but the truth
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
you cant be a don jaun and at the same time get "feelz" for women
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
it doesnt work like that you will end up a broken man
its one or the other feelings or ruthlessness
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Objectify them
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
GFTOW
dustmuffin
Master Don Juan
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When you get the feelz smack it down. Away evil feelz! If you don't have plates. Think about her negatives. Chew on that for awhile. Then go out and get another plate!
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Sad but true. As a man you are capable of controlling your emotions... If you start feeling too much for a women, not only does it hurt you, but it hurts her as well, because when you become this little puppy dog following her around, she will not like you. You are doing her a favor by acting like a man... even if she thinks you are being mean. Don't believe all the BS in current movies, commercials, and media, women are not attracted to men that fawn all over them. If they want to be worshiped and loved unconditionally, they will get a dog.
When they want a man, they WANT A MAN.