BongDuy
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What the hell does that mean? Is that really a bad thing?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When she asks "Are you gay?"
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Gangster Of Love
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It means one of two things,
1) "Why aren't you making a move on me? I am really making it obvious"
2) "I don't see you as a manly man I can see myself in the sack with."
1) "Why aren't you making a move on me? I am really making it obvious"
2) "I don't see you as a manly man I can see myself in the sack with."
ThatMysteriousGuy
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As mentioned, it's a good thing.BongDuy said:
I avoid answering questions directly so I'll say some non-answer to play with her:
"What's wrong with being gay?"
"You don't like gay people?"
"That's pretty personal don't you think?"
etc...
I almost always have a very slight smirk (CEastwood) when I'm saying things like that but sometimes an overly done deadpan (some JBond) is fun as well.
I had a girl at work where I'd been for a few weeks who started asking me if I was gay. She started up by harassing my about my toothbrush that was lightish red. Every few days she'd try to tease me about being gay. This means she's thinking about it more and more and it's getting her very attracted because I'm not getting angry and I'm refusing to settle the matter.
After a month of this one night I said "hey, lets go get a drink and check out some guys!" and laughed. I knew she wouldn't refuse, she likes me, wants to really figure out if I'm kidding, etc...
We had a great night and she told me why she asked. a) Wanted to know why she hadn't seen a female around and b) she noticed I wasn't fascinated by women like acting nervous or overly interested in any females at work.
*I'm always trying to find out what women are responding to by casually trying to find out what the main things were that specifically caught their interest.
thedude4242
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tell her not Im not gay, Ill prove it to yah. what are you doing later on tonight.
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I got into a relationship talk with a woman at work earlier. She asked me if I was gay when I sarcastically and honestly answered her questions about marriage etc and the fact that I don't want a girlfriend. I didn't detect any interest on her part though and if she did, I sabotaged them. :crackup:
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Its a good sign, i get it a lot and usually things end out in a better way.
Hit her with a quirky response its got openings all over it!
"What!? I'm 100% straight baby, but you would look so much hotter if i could throw a helmet and shoulderpads on you"
EDIT: and most of the times when they ask that, they basically saying your too hot/awesome/attractive/whatever to be single etc
Hit her with a quirky response its got openings all over it!
"What!? I'm 100% straight baby, but you would look so much hotter if i could throw a helmet and shoulderpads on you"
EDIT: and most of the times when they ask that, they basically saying your too hot/awesome/attractive/whatever to be single etc
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Happens to my friend all the time.BongDuy said:
Dante420
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Laugh and say
"nah. . .but I'm too cool to be single huh?"
"nah. . .but I'm too cool to be single huh?"
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.