BongDuy
Master Don Juan
What the hell does that mean? Is that really a bad thing?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When she asks "Are you gay?"
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
It means one of two things,
1) "Why aren't you making a move on me? I am really making it obvious"
2) "I don't see you as a manly man I can see myself in the sack with."
1) "Why aren't you making a move on me? I am really making it obvious"
2) "I don't see you as a manly man I can see myself in the sack with."
ThatMysteriousGuy
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As mentioned, it's a good thing.BongDuy said:
I avoid answering questions directly so I'll say some non-answer to play with her:
"What's wrong with being gay?"
"You don't like gay people?"
"That's pretty personal don't you think?"
etc...
I almost always have a very slight smirk (CEastwood) when I'm saying things like that but sometimes an overly done deadpan (some JBond) is fun as well.
I had a girl at work where I'd been for a few weeks who started asking me if I was gay. She started up by harassing my about my toothbrush that was lightish red. Every few days she'd try to tease me about being gay. This means she's thinking about it more and more and it's getting her very attracted because I'm not getting angry and I'm refusing to settle the matter.
After a month of this one night I said "hey, lets go get a drink and check out some guys!" and laughed. I knew she wouldn't refuse, she likes me, wants to really figure out if I'm kidding, etc...
We had a great night and she told me why she asked. a) Wanted to know why she hadn't seen a female around and b) she noticed I wasn't fascinated by women like acting nervous or overly interested in any females at work.
*I'm always trying to find out what women are responding to by casually trying to find out what the main things were that specifically caught their interest.
thedude4242
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tell her not Im not gay, Ill prove it to yah. what are you doing later on tonight.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
E
Energizer
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I got into a relationship talk with a woman at work earlier. She asked me if I was gay when I sarcastically and honestly answered her questions about marriage etc and the fact that I don't want a girlfriend. I didn't detect any interest on her part though and if she did, I sabotaged them. :crackup:
DJ_Tekinkel
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Its a good sign, i get it a lot and usually things end out in a better way.
Hit her with a quirky response its got openings all over it!
"What!? I'm 100% straight baby, but you would look so much hotter if i could throw a helmet and shoulderpads on you"
EDIT: and most of the times when they ask that, they basically saying your too hot/awesome/attractive/whatever to be single etc
Hit her with a quirky response its got openings all over it!
"What!? I'm 100% straight baby, but you would look so much hotter if i could throw a helmet and shoulderpads on you"
EDIT: and most of the times when they ask that, they basically saying your too hot/awesome/attractive/whatever to be single etc
The Piano Master
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Happens to my friend all the time.BongDuy said:
Dante420
Master Don Juan
Laugh and say
"nah. . .but I'm too cool to be single huh?"
"nah. . .but I'm too cool to be single huh?"
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.