You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ah yes James Bond, well that would depend on which James Bond you are talking about.cola said:Just wondering.. Would you say your a serious guy like james bond or james dean? a goofy jim carey kind of guy,
Explain.
In addition, how successful are you with this persona socially.
James Bond in the club does NOT work.cola said:Just wondering.. Would you say your a serious guy like james bond or james dean? a goofy jim carey kind of guy,
Explain.
In addition, how successful are you with this persona socially.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree with all except Daniel Craig.Young Stallion said:Ah yes James Bond, well that would depend on which James Bond you are talking about.
Roger Moore you see was rather goofy and lighthearted.
Sean Connery was the ultimate alpha male.
Peirce Brosnan was suave and sophisticated.
Timothy Dalton and Daniel Craig are very very serious.
George Lazenby...yeah he dont even deserve credit as a Bond.
Girls would be most attracted to the Sean Connery, can be funny, can be serious and he goes after what he wants.