"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When out socializing are you the serious type or goofy?

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Just wondering.. Would you say your a serious guy like james bond or james dean? a goofy jim carey kind of guy,
Explain.
In addition, how successful are you with this persona socially.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I like to play social chameleon. You have to be able to adapt to your surroundings. I can do both, and I feel it would be in everyone's interest to be able to do the same. Judge the women you are with. Are you in a club? It's easier to be goofy. Are you in a lounge bar? Better to be serious. A dive bar? Take your pick. Once you choose though, don't be wishy-washy. Stick with one persona. Don't want to confuse the chick...not yet at least.
 
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cola said:
Just wondering.. Would you say your a serious guy like james bond or james dean? a goofy jim carey kind of guy,
Explain.
In addition, how successful are you with this persona socially.
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Ah yes James Bond, well that would depend on which James Bond you are talking about.

Roger Moore you see was rather goofy and lighthearted.

Sean Connery was the ultimate alpha male.

Peirce Brosnan was suave and sophisticated.

Timothy Dalton and Daniel Craig are very very serious.

George Lazenby...yeah he dont even deserve credit as a Bond.

Girls would be most attracted to the Sean Connery, can be funny, can be serious and he goes after what he wants.
 
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cola said:
Just wondering.. Would you say your a serious guy like james bond or james dean? a goofy jim carey kind of guy,
Explain.
In addition, how successful are you with this persona socially.
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James Bond in the club does NOT work.

James Bond AFTER sex DOES work.

Being serious in a club environment makes it easy for FUN guys like myself to get laid. But Young Stallion has an excellent point on his Sean Connery comment.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Very goofy. But less goofy when I'm with people I don't know. But still goofy. Life is alot more fun that way!
 
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Young Stallion said:
Ah yes James Bond, well that would depend on which James Bond you are talking about.

Roger Moore you see was rather goofy and lighthearted.

Sean Connery was the ultimate alpha male.

Peirce Brosnan was suave and sophisticated.

Timothy Dalton and Daniel Craig are very very serious.

George Lazenby...yeah he dont even deserve credit as a Bond.

Girls would be most attracted to the Sean Connery, can be funny, can be serious and he goes after what he wants.
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I agree with all except Daniel Craig.

You should change Daniel Craig to whiny emo b!tch who doesn't even fvck any women whereas other Bonds get like 2-3 in a movie.

Part of the James Bond persona is that guys look up to him and his badassery while Daniel Craig just has a decent body and plays a whiny fag.
 
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In a bar, I'm serious with a little fun mixed in.

Nothing wrong with being fun, but do too much of it and you run the risk of entertaining girls that will never b@ng you. Being a little dry can quickly weed out the ones that aren't into you physically.
 
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