"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When out socializing are you the serious type or goofy?
- Thread starter cola
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Ah yes James Bond, well that would depend on which James Bond you are talking about.cola said:
Roger Moore you see was rather goofy and lighthearted.
Sean Connery was the ultimate alpha male.
Peirce Brosnan was suave and sophisticated.
Timothy Dalton and Daniel Craig are very very serious.
George Lazenby...yeah he dont even deserve credit as a Bond.
Girls would be most attracted to the Sean Connery, can be funny, can be serious and he goes after what he wants.
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James Bond in the club does NOT work.cola said:
James Bond AFTER sex DOES work.
Being serious in a club environment makes it easy for FUN guys like myself to get laid. But Young Stallion has an excellent point on his Sean Connery comment.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I agree with all except Daniel Craig.Young Stallion said:
You should change Daniel Craig to whiny emo b!tch who doesn't even fvck any women whereas other Bonds get like 2-3 in a movie.
Part of the James Bond persona is that guys look up to him and his badassery while Daniel Craig just has a decent body and plays a whiny fag.
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Nothing wrong with being fun, but do too much of it and you run the risk of entertaining girls that will never b@ng you. Being a little dry can quickly weed out the ones that aren't into you physically.