"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When out socializing are you the serious type or goofy?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Ah yes James Bond, well that would depend on which James Bond you are talking about.cola said:
Roger Moore you see was rather goofy and lighthearted.
Sean Connery was the ultimate alpha male.
Peirce Brosnan was suave and sophisticated.
Timothy Dalton and Daniel Craig are very very serious.
George Lazenby...yeah he dont even deserve credit as a Bond.
Girls would be most attracted to the Sean Connery, can be funny, can be serious and he goes after what he wants.
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James Bond in the club does NOT work.cola said:
James Bond AFTER sex DOES work.
Being serious in a club environment makes it easy for FUN guys like myself to get laid. But Young Stallion has an excellent point on his Sean Connery comment.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I agree with all except Daniel Craig.Young Stallion said:
You should change Daniel Craig to whiny emo b!tch who doesn't even fvck any women whereas other Bonds get like 2-3 in a movie.
Part of the James Bond persona is that guys look up to him and his badassery while Daniel Craig just has a decent body and plays a whiny fag.
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Nothing wrong with being fun, but do too much of it and you run the risk of entertaining girls that will never b@ng you. Being a little dry can quickly weed out the ones that aren't into you physically.