"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When libido is a burden, some men turn to unproven treatments

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hamurabimbi

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‘men who want to lower their libido go so far as to put their testicles in ice water or punch their penis.’
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But why though? Cause a guy with who has an avatar of another man thinking he looks like that at that age says so? :rofl::rofl::rofl:
My comment was not directed at you, since you’re not complaining about your libido being high and wanting to lower it.

Solipsism is real (look up the meaning…bro).

And the rationale is that PEDs such as exogenous androgens do, in fact have an effect on libido.

As far as you trying to draw some sort of inference between my chosen avatar and me is at best puerile (you’ll most likely need to look that one up as well…bro)
 

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If you want less sexual temptation, you must fast and pray often.


It’s very easy to succumb to sex when you’re eating a five course steak meal 3 times a day.


Easy…..learn to fast bro.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In all seriousness, a healthy way to lower your libido is fasting. Fasting, if done right, will lower your testosterone temporally while raising your HGH, among other health benefits.
 

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In all seriousness, a healthy way to lower your libido is fasting. Fasting, if done right, will lower your testosterone temporally while raising your HGH, among other health benefits.
This doesn't sound right but I don't care enough to actually look myself
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The lady who wrote that article is a ret@rd. There is no incentive to fund male libido research, so of course it's all underground and anecdotal, that's all it will ever be, there's never going to be "proven" until "experts" have a drug they can push. Calling it "misinformation" is typical leftist clown behavior, and shows a great lack of empathy to boot. That said, there is a drug that works, and it's called testosterone...

I've tried everything under the sun to raise my horrendously low libido for almost a decade and almost none of them did a damn thing. Almost every girl I've been with had a libido far beyond mine, in many cases they seemed like a nympho compared to me, so it's frustrating, and I can understand why men would try anything.

All that said......... in the majority of cases, the issue is low testosterone and excessive porn/masturbation, it's that simple.

I have been taking 400mg of test per week, only when I avoid porn/masturbation for 2-3 weeks does my libido start to approach "healthy" levels. I have had some odd days of what I might consider excessively high libido, and it's actually fascinating to see how women behave around me; though I think this can be explained by the fact that high libido is correlated with high dopamine which itself is correlated with high social functioning and confidence...it's all tied together.

Low dose daily cialis is also helpful, and has some other health benefits too boot (raising BDNF, and treating/preventing BPH). One other possible solution is RCs; melanotan II apparently is extremely effective for raising libido. Phenibut is also pretty good for libido too, but inconsistent in that regard.
 
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I have the opposite problem awfully, libido is just enough to have sex when I like a girl but if I happened not to have sex for a month it wouldnt bother much.

I can easily perform but I dont feel such urge to put myself in uncomfortable or annoying situations to do so.

I guess my dopamine receptors are kinda fried in that field.
 
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