Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When libido is a burden, some men turn to unproven treatments

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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‘men who want to lower their libido go so far as to put their testicles in ice water or punch their penis.’
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But why though? Cause a guy with who has an avatar of another man thinking he looks like that at that age says so? :rofl::rofl::rofl:
My comment was not directed at you, since you’re not complaining about your libido being high and wanting to lower it.

Solipsism is real (look up the meaning…bro).

And the rationale is that PEDs such as exogenous androgens do, in fact have an effect on libido.

As far as you trying to draw some sort of inference between my chosen avatar and me is at best puerile (you’ll most likely need to look that one up as well…bro)
 

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If you want less sexual temptation, you must fast and pray often.


It’s very easy to succumb to sex when you’re eating a five course steak meal 3 times a day.


Easy…..learn to fast bro.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In all seriousness, a healthy way to lower your libido is fasting. Fasting, if done right, will lower your testosterone temporally while raising your HGH, among other health benefits.
 

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In all seriousness, a healthy way to lower your libido is fasting. Fasting, if done right, will lower your testosterone temporally while raising your HGH, among other health benefits.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The lady who wrote that article is a ret@rd. There is no incentive to fund male libido research, so of course it's all underground and anecdotal, that's all it will ever be, there's never going to be "proven" until "experts" have a drug they can push. Calling it "misinformation" is typical leftist clown behavior, and shows a great lack of empathy to boot. That said, there is a drug that works, and it's called testosterone...

I've tried everything under the sun to raise my horrendously low libido for almost a decade and almost none of them did a damn thing. Almost every girl I've been with had a libido far beyond mine, in many cases they seemed like a nympho compared to me, so it's frustrating, and I can understand why men would try anything.

All that said......... in the majority of cases, the issue is low testosterone and excessive porn/masturbation, it's that simple.

I have been taking 400mg of test per week, only when I avoid porn/masturbation for 2-3 weeks does my libido start to approach "healthy" levels. I have had some odd days of what I might consider excessively high libido, and it's actually fascinating to see how women behave around me; though I think this can be explained by the fact that high libido is correlated with high dopamine which itself is correlated with high social functioning and confidence...it's all tied together.

Low dose daily cialis is also helpful, and has some other health benefits too boot (raising BDNF, and treating/preventing BPH). One other possible solution is RCs; melanotan II apparently is extremely effective for raising libido. Phenibut is also pretty good for libido too, but inconsistent in that regard.
 
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I have the opposite problem awfully, libido is just enough to have sex when I like a girl but if I happened not to have sex for a month it wouldnt bother much.

I can easily perform but I dont feel such urge to put myself in uncomfortable or annoying situations to do so.

I guess my dopamine receptors are kinda fried in that field.
 
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