"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When is enough??
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Cheiradawg
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Alot of people have posted thet they "feel" this or that. I don't think this is a good way to judge a work, but each to his own.
Some people judge workouts by the numbers. If I did more weight or sets then the prior workout then I consider it good.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bulldog6971
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TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Me too.
If you follow Diesels bulking guide, you'll find it's a great framework for satisfying workouts.
I'm usually in the gym for an hour, and I cycle routines each 2-3 weeks. Keeps it fresh, and doesn't allow your body to get too comfortable with the workout. I usually work around the 6 rep range, and up the weights once I can do 8.
I always leave the gym feeling pumped, and wake up the next day f*ckin sore!
Its also a mental thing. Use the mind/muscle connection. Sounds like some new age crap, but it works! Concentrate intensly on each rep, and picture the target muscles doing the work. Take each rep slowly.
I guarantee that if you block everything else out during a working session and truly bust your ass, you will walk out feeling satisfied.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.