"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After every work out - i feel it was insufficent. Thinking to myself: Wtf, you didnt do good enough...

What is a "good" workout? How do you know your done - for the day?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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when you feel the need to go home and cry.
 

Fitch

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Damn, then i never had a good work out...
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Real tips...please
 

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Originally posted by Fitch
After every work out - i feel it was insufficent. Thinking to myself: Wtf, you didnt do good enough...

What is a "good" workout? How do you know your done - for the day?
Alot of people have posted thet they "feel" this or that. I don't think this is a good way to judge a work, but each to his own.

Some people judge workouts by the numbers. If I did more weight or sets then the prior workout then I consider it good.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah, but sometimes my goal for a set may be...lets say 8 right?

And i only get up to 5 or 6... i feel like **** after that - haha

Is this a good thing? i heard that if u lift between 4 - 8 then its a good work out...
 

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4-8 is good for bulking.

higher reps is good for toning. if you can't do anymore, you can't do anymore. pat yourself on the back and go home.
 

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Originally posted by Bulldog6971
doing legs Ive known a few times by throwing up or passing out.

Me too.
 

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No such thing as toning - period.


If you follow Diesels bulking guide, you'll find it's a great framework for satisfying workouts.

I'm usually in the gym for an hour, and I cycle routines each 2-3 weeks. Keeps it fresh, and doesn't allow your body to get too comfortable with the workout. I usually work around the 6 rep range, and up the weights once I can do 8.

I always leave the gym feeling pumped, and wake up the next day f*ckin sore!

Its also a mental thing. Use the mind/muscle connection. Sounds like some new age crap, but it works! Concentrate intensly on each rep, and picture the target muscles doing the work. Take each rep slowly.

I guarantee that if you block everything else out during a working session and truly bust your ass, you will walk out feeling satisfied.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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