lizardking82
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 8, 2016
- Messages
- 1,884
- Reaction score
- 1,546
Complete the sentence with the way you use the most and you see as the best course of action when you're in doubt about sth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Agreed.When in doubt do nothing.
Don't call, text, email, say anything verbally, react, etc.
Wait, stay silent and watch it play out, because it always does
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Wait, stay silent and watch it play out, because it always does
sounds like a how I met your mother referenceI had a friend who we called Ghetto Matty.
His favorite phrase was "when in doubt whip out".
He will whip out his **** every time he'll isolate a girl. Usually that would end in an intercourse.
For some reason, if I did this, I would be in jail and a sex offender.I had a friend who we called Ghetto Matty.
His favorite phrase was "when in doubt whip out".
He will whip out his **** every time he'll isolate a girl. Usually that would end in an intercourse.
Me too...I dont think that whipping it out would work for most of us.For some reason, if I did this, I would be in jail and a sex offender.