lizardking82
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Complete the sentence with the way you use the most and you see as the best course of action when you're in doubt about sth.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Agreed.When in doubt do nothing.
Don't call, text, email, say anything verbally, react, etc.
Wait, stay silent and watch it play out, because it always does
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wait, stay silent and watch it play out, because it always does
sounds like a how I met your mother referenceI had a friend who we called Ghetto Matty.
His favorite phrase was "when in doubt whip out".
He will whip out his **** every time he'll isolate a girl. Usually that would end in an intercourse.
For some reason, if I did this, I would be in jail and a sex offender.I had a friend who we called Ghetto Matty.
His favorite phrase was "when in doubt whip out".
He will whip out his **** every time he'll isolate a girl. Usually that would end in an intercourse.
Me too...I dont think that whipping it out would work for most of us.For some reason, if I did this, I would be in jail and a sex offender.