She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
get some sass.Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
What do you do when girls start demonstrating higher value (when it should be the other way around)? For example, because my face is kind of young looking for my age, a lot of girls that see me start treating me like a little kid... like they pinch my cheeks and say i'm so cute and other annoying stuff like that. What should I do when they do this?
Stop it. Stop it right now.Originally posted by komplex
get some sass.
if you're out with a girl and she says something like "I can't believe that guy was checking me out" with a bratty little attitude
come back with something snappy like
"nah, he's gay cause i saw him checking me out. he was probably looking at you to make sure you didn't notice."
man, if they pinch your cheek.. great time for you to bust on them for trying to make a move on you.
move her hands out of the way and say something along the lines of, "you can look, but you can't touch.... only I can do the touching"
The funnier part is that since your face really does look like a little kid, but you coming back with snappy responses. it WILL be funny!... however if a big strong man said those things, it wouldn't be as funny.
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Stop it. Stop it right now.
How is she DMV?? Making you feel like a little kid isnt DMV. Hit them with a neg...see what happens, basically be C&F and grow some balls.
I meant DHV...demonstrating higher value.Originally posted by komplex
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?
the stuff I mentioned above works wonders, if done in a funny way. If you're going to act like a pushy bastard about it, then of course it won't work. It's actually demonstrating C&F and growing balls. Maybe you read it too fast.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.