"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you do when girls start demonstrating higher value (when it should be the other way around)? For example, because my face is kind of young looking for my age, a lot of girls that see me start treating me like a little kid... like they pinch my cheeks and say i'm so cute and other annoying stuff like that. What should I do when they do this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
What do you do when girls start demonstrating higher value (when it should be the other way around)? For example, because my face is kind of young looking for my age, a lot of girls that see me start treating me like a little kid... like they pinch my cheeks and say i'm so cute and other annoying stuff like that. What should I do when they do this?
get some sass.

if you're out with a girl and she says something like "I can't believe that guy was checking me out" with a bratty little attitude

come back with something snappy like
"nah, he's gay cause i saw him checking me out. he was probably looking at you to make sure you didn't notice."

man, if they pinch your cheek.. great time for you to bust on them for trying to make a move on you.

move her hands out of the way and say something along the lines of, "you can look, but you can't touch.... only I can do the touching"

The funnier part is that since your face really does look like a little kid, but you coming back with snappy responses. it WILL be funny!... however if a big strong man said those things, it wouldn't be as funny.
 

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Re: Re: when girls demonstrate higher value?

Originally posted by komplex
get some sass.

if you're out with a girl and she says something like "I can't believe that guy was checking me out" with a bratty little attitude

come back with something snappy like
"nah, he's gay cause i saw him checking me out. he was probably looking at you to make sure you didn't notice."

man, if they pinch your cheek.. great time for you to bust on them for trying to make a move on you.

move her hands out of the way and say something along the lines of, "you can look, but you can't touch.... only I can do the touching"

The funnier part is that since your face really does look like a little kid, but you coming back with snappy responses. it WILL be funny!... however if a big strong man said those things, it wouldn't be as funny.
Stop it. Stop it right now.

How is she DMV?? Making you feel like a little kid isnt DMV. Hit them with a neg...see what happens, basically be C&F and grow some balls.
 

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Re: Re: Re: when girls demonstrate higher value?

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Stop it. Stop it right now.

How is she DMV?? Making you feel like a little kid isnt DMV. Hit them with a neg...see what happens, basically be C&F and grow some balls.
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?

the stuff I mentioned above works wonders, if done in a funny way. If you're going to act like a pushy bastard about it, then of course it won't work. It's actually demonstrating C&F and growing balls. Maybe you read it too fast.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: when girls demonstrate higher value?

Originally posted by komplex
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?

the stuff I mentioned above works wonders, if done in a funny way. If you're going to act like a pushy bastard about it, then of course it won't work. It's actually demonstrating C&F and growing balls. Maybe you read it too fast.
I meant DHV...demonstrating higher value.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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