You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
get some sass.Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
What do you do when girls start demonstrating higher value (when it should be the other way around)? For example, because my face is kind of young looking for my age, a lot of girls that see me start treating me like a little kid... like they pinch my cheeks and say i'm so cute and other annoying stuff like that. What should I do when they do this?
Stop it. Stop it right now.Originally posted by komplex
get some sass.
if you're out with a girl and she says something like "I can't believe that guy was checking me out" with a bratty little attitude
come back with something snappy like
"nah, he's gay cause i saw him checking me out. he was probably looking at you to make sure you didn't notice."
man, if they pinch your cheek.. great time for you to bust on them for trying to make a move on you.
move her hands out of the way and say something along the lines of, "you can look, but you can't touch.... only I can do the touching"
The funnier part is that since your face really does look like a little kid, but you coming back with snappy responses. it WILL be funny!... however if a big strong man said those things, it wouldn't be as funny.
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Stop it. Stop it right now.
How is she DMV?? Making you feel like a little kid isnt DMV. Hit them with a neg...see what happens, basically be C&F and grow some balls.
I meant DHV...demonstrating higher value.Originally posted by komplex
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?
the stuff I mentioned above works wonders, if done in a funny way. If you're going to act like a pushy bastard about it, then of course it won't work. It's actually demonstrating C&F and growing balls. Maybe you read it too fast.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.