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What do you do when girls start demonstrating higher value (when it should be the other way around)? For example, because my face is kind of young looking for my age, a lot of girls that see me start treating me like a little kid... like they pinch my cheeks and say i'm so cute and other annoying stuff like that. What should I do when they do this?
 

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Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
What do you do when girls start demonstrating higher value (when it should be the other way around)? For example, because my face is kind of young looking for my age, a lot of girls that see me start treating me like a little kid... like they pinch my cheeks and say i'm so cute and other annoying stuff like that. What should I do when they do this?
get some sass.

if you're out with a girl and she says something like "I can't believe that guy was checking me out" with a bratty little attitude

come back with something snappy like
"nah, he's gay cause i saw him checking me out. he was probably looking at you to make sure you didn't notice."

man, if they pinch your cheek.. great time for you to bust on them for trying to make a move on you.

move her hands out of the way and say something along the lines of, "you can look, but you can't touch.... only I can do the touching"

The funnier part is that since your face really does look like a little kid, but you coming back with snappy responses. it WILL be funny!... however if a big strong man said those things, it wouldn't be as funny.
 

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Re: Re: when girls demonstrate higher value?

Originally posted by komplex
get some sass.

if you're out with a girl and she says something like "I can't believe that guy was checking me out" with a bratty little attitude

come back with something snappy like
"nah, he's gay cause i saw him checking me out. he was probably looking at you to make sure you didn't notice."

man, if they pinch your cheek.. great time for you to bust on them for trying to make a move on you.

move her hands out of the way and say something along the lines of, "you can look, but you can't touch.... only I can do the touching"

The funnier part is that since your face really does look like a little kid, but you coming back with snappy responses. it WILL be funny!... however if a big strong man said those things, it wouldn't be as funny.
Stop it. Stop it right now.

How is she DMV?? Making you feel like a little kid isnt DMV. Hit them with a neg...see what happens, basically be C&F and grow some balls.
 

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Re: Re: Re: when girls demonstrate higher value?

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Stop it. Stop it right now.

How is she DMV?? Making you feel like a little kid isnt DMV. Hit them with a neg...see what happens, basically be C&F and grow some balls.
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?

the stuff I mentioned above works wonders, if done in a funny way. If you're going to act like a pushy bastard about it, then of course it won't work. It's actually demonstrating C&F and growing balls. Maybe you read it too fast.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: when girls demonstrate higher value?

Originally posted by komplex
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?

the stuff I mentioned above works wonders, if done in a funny way. If you're going to act like a pushy bastard about it, then of course it won't work. It's actually demonstrating C&F and growing balls. Maybe you read it too fast.
I meant DHV...demonstrating higher value.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

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She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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