"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you do when girls start demonstrating higher value (when it should be the other way around)? For example, because my face is kind of young looking for my age, a lot of girls that see me start treating me like a little kid... like they pinch my cheeks and say i'm so cute and other annoying stuff like that. What should I do when they do this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
What do you do when girls start demonstrating higher value (when it should be the other way around)? For example, because my face is kind of young looking for my age, a lot of girls that see me start treating me like a little kid... like they pinch my cheeks and say i'm so cute and other annoying stuff like that. What should I do when they do this?
get some sass.

if you're out with a girl and she says something like "I can't believe that guy was checking me out" with a bratty little attitude

come back with something snappy like
"nah, he's gay cause i saw him checking me out. he was probably looking at you to make sure you didn't notice."

man, if they pinch your cheek.. great time for you to bust on them for trying to make a move on you.

move her hands out of the way and say something along the lines of, "you can look, but you can't touch.... only I can do the touching"

The funnier part is that since your face really does look like a little kid, but you coming back with snappy responses. it WILL be funny!... however if a big strong man said those things, it wouldn't be as funny.
 

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Re: Re: when girls demonstrate higher value?

Originally posted by komplex
get some sass.

if you're out with a girl and she says something like "I can't believe that guy was checking me out" with a bratty little attitude

come back with something snappy like
"nah, he's gay cause i saw him checking me out. he was probably looking at you to make sure you didn't notice."

man, if they pinch your cheek.. great time for you to bust on them for trying to make a move on you.

move her hands out of the way and say something along the lines of, "you can look, but you can't touch.... only I can do the touching"

The funnier part is that since your face really does look like a little kid, but you coming back with snappy responses. it WILL be funny!... however if a big strong man said those things, it wouldn't be as funny.
Stop it. Stop it right now.

How is she DMV?? Making you feel like a little kid isnt DMV. Hit them with a neg...see what happens, basically be C&F and grow some balls.
 

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Re: Re: Re: when girls demonstrate higher value?

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Stop it. Stop it right now.

How is she DMV?? Making you feel like a little kid isnt DMV. Hit them with a neg...see what happens, basically be C&F and grow some balls.
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?

the stuff I mentioned above works wonders, if done in a funny way. If you're going to act like a pushy bastard about it, then of course it won't work. It's actually demonstrating C&F and growing balls. Maybe you read it too fast.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: when girls demonstrate higher value?

Originally posted by komplex
Other than the Department of Motor Vehicles, what's DMV?

the stuff I mentioned above works wonders, if done in a funny way. If you're going to act like a pushy bastard about it, then of course it won't work. It's actually demonstrating C&F and growing balls. Maybe you read it too fast.
I meant DHV...demonstrating higher value.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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