"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl kept on responding via a matching app on my phone with nonsense questions without acknowledging my request for her number, something I have no patience for. The third time I asked, I added "last time I'll ask."

Today she responds with "I think we should Unmatch. I now really like another guy."

Now if she really didn't care about me knowing this, wouldn't she have just unmatched me and/or not responded? What does she get out of letting me know this? What is she trying to get me to do?

My response: "Ok...seems like info I really didn't need to know. But good luck with that."

This kind of stuff is so amusing. But I wonder - was she trying to move me off center?

Sh!t test?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ain't that the truth, dustmuffin.

Another one got in touch on Saturday. I asked when she was free, she said that night or Tuesday (tomorrow), and all of January was busy because of her moving apartments on February 1. I said let's do Tuesday at 9. I have had a dinner with a colleague scheduled for weeks that night. Her response "A first date at 9 pm is unappealing."

I explained the time constraint I had and she said, "No girl who isn't desperate will tolerate being squeezed in for a first date at 9 pm."

So I was like, "Ok, I guess we're looking at January then. Let me know what works."

She said again that she had NO time in January because she would be packing for her move. BS nonsense excuse. So I said, since you're free tonight and Tuesday and our schedules don't work, why not get a head start on packing for your move so you have time to see me in January. She said she had no room for boxes in her 500 square foot apartment.

My response - "You need an entire month to pack a 500 sq. foot apartment?" She didn't like that, and got rude and obnoxious. Delete. :lol:
 
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What a fruit loop.
 
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Stugots26 said:
Girl kept on responding via a matching app on my phone with nonsense questions without acknowledging my request for her number, something I have no patience for. The third time I asked, I added "last time I'll ask."

Today she responds with "I think we should Unmatch. I now really like another guy."

Now if she really didn't care about me knowing this, wouldn't she have just unmatched me and/or not responded? What does she get out of letting me know this? What is she trying to get me to do?

My response: "Ok...seems like info I really didn't need to know. But good luck with that."

This kind of stuff is so amusing. But I wonder - was she trying to move me off center?

Sh!t test?
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Come on bro, she is trying to make a FOOL out of you. That is their whole goal, they want to see how desperate you are and then show their boyfriend so their boyfriend shapes up and buys them things.

Why would you ask a girl online THREE times for her number? You should ask ONCE, no response, move on. And when you said "last time I'll ask" really shows how desperate you are. You guys got to lower the ego and think from their point of view. Everything they do is for their benefit. They don't care above love/marriage/improving the world. These girls don't want a connection, they want to extract resources (money, sex, image) with the best guy they can find.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stugots26 said:
Ain't that the truth, dustmuffin.

Another one got in touch on Saturday. I asked when she was free, she said that night or Tuesday (tomorrow), and all of January was busy because of her moving apartments on February 1. I said let's do Tuesday at 9. I have had a dinner with a colleague scheduled for weeks that night. Her response "A first date at 9 pm is unappealing."

I explained the time constraint I had and she said, "No girl who isn't desperate will tolerate being squeezed in for a first date at 9 pm."

So I was like, "Ok, I guess we're looking at January then. Let me know what works."

She said again that she had NO time in January because she would be packing for her move. BS nonsense excuse. So I said, since you're free tonight and Tuesday and our schedules don't work, why not get a head start on packing for your move so you have time to see me in January. She said she had no room for boxes in her 500 square foot apartment.

My response - "You need an entire month to pack a 500 sq. foot apartment?" She didn't like that, and got rude and obnoxious. Delete. :lol:
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She wanted to be in charge
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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