Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's the funniest sh1t i've seen and i wish i had a yahoo girl!!! hahahah mountain dew!! What i usually say while i'm holding the back of her head is "Oh sh/t i'm coming" letting her know so if she keeps sucking then she wants my kids down her throat but if she pulls out then she wants my little ones on her face...LMAO any way it goes it's up to her i just warn her before it happens.:woo:Originally posted by reyalp
yeah, depends on what she wants. i had this girl from yahoo come over one time, we talked for like 15 minutes, she said she wanted to give me head but we had to run to the store first and get her a mountain dew "to wash it down with" as she put it.
she had the mountain dew primed and ready to go, when i let loose she chugged half that 20oz, man. lol
then she gave me a big hug and went home.
they'll usually tell you though. if they don't state their preference, don't say crap, just let it loose when you're good and ready.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.