I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's the funniest sh1t i've seen and i wish i had a yahoo girl!!! hahahah mountain dew!! What i usually say while i'm holding the back of her head is "Oh sh/t i'm coming" letting her know so if she keeps sucking then she wants my kids down her throat but if she pulls out then she wants my little ones on her face...LMAO any way it goes it's up to her i just warn her before it happens.:woo:Originally posted by reyalp
yeah, depends on what she wants. i had this girl from yahoo come over one time, we talked for like 15 minutes, she said she wanted to give me head but we had to run to the store first and get her a mountain dew "to wash it down with" as she put it.
she had the mountain dew primed and ready to go, when i let loose she chugged half that 20oz, man. lol
then she gave me a big hug and went home.
they'll usually tell you though. if they don't state their preference, don't say crap, just let it loose when you're good and ready.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.