You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's the funniest sh1t i've seen and i wish i had a yahoo girl!!! hahahah mountain dew!! What i usually say while i'm holding the back of her head is "Oh sh/t i'm coming" letting her know so if she keeps sucking then she wants my kids down her throat but if she pulls out then she wants my little ones on her face...LMAO any way it goes it's up to her i just warn her before it happens.:woo:Originally posted by reyalp
yeah, depends on what she wants. i had this girl from yahoo come over one time, we talked for like 15 minutes, she said she wanted to give me head but we had to run to the store first and get her a mountain dew "to wash it down with" as she put it.
she had the mountain dew primed and ready to go, when i let loose she chugged half that 20oz, man. lol
then she gave me a big hug and went home.
they'll usually tell you though. if they don't state their preference, don't say crap, just let it loose when you're good and ready.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.