"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When doing FB game, is it better to have pics of you with girls being close to each other or not?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Who Dares Win
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Lets begin with different type of girls that are turned on or off according to what they are looking for, if you look like a womanizer you have the serious girls and the neofemminist girls avoiding you while the girls looking for fun may have attraction for you.
I believe the best thing is to take advantage of the pre selection point by letting them to see you in an environment full of goodlooking girls, that is enough to make you pass the selection test (losers are not invited in exclusive places), most of all avoid to upload pictures yourself, let others tag you otherwise it seems you're bragging to try too hard.
AllDay85
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Have pics up of you being candid and doing action things.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
Let's be honest, this isn't always an option. It's ok to have women you're ****ing on social media, just not ideal.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Why isn't this an option?
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Well, it's a always possible you met them over social media.
AllDay85
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Sometimes she was already on there. Sometimes we met on there. Sometimes she gives me her social media instead of a number. Sometimes it's your main chick.
RangerMIke
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Having said that... women prefer men with options. But if you are over the top showing off women who like you that starts looking narcissistic... which is feminine not masculine.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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On my facebook, every week there is a new picture of me (i am tagging or someone tags me) of me with a girl.... usually jetset events.... a couple of date asked if I was a player.... some of the girls I had XXX others not and it just for show.
As a single guy, having a new pic every week with a different girl you hands around her waist.... would it be too much?
RangerMike, yes its an attraction vs. comfort thing. She can get some attraction from your pics but she will lose some curiosity and she can get some comfort from your pics. So its difficult to say, i guess only by experimenting with a lot of girls can we get a conclusion with this.
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