You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Let's be honest, this isn't always an option. It's ok to have women you're ****ing on social media, just not ideal.Just forego facebook game and go outside, springs coming.. and don't add chicks your dating to your social media and don't follow them
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why isn't this an option?Let's be honest, this isn't always an option. It's ok to have women you're ****ing on social media, just not ideal.
Well, it's a always possible you met them over social media.Why isn't this an option?
Sometimes she was already on there. Sometimes we met on there. Sometimes she gives me her social media instead of a number. Sometimes it's your main chick.Why isn't this an option?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I would say it's too much if you are the one uploading photos, it can look narcissistic like RangerMike said. But if it's the girls or your friends tagging you, than hey what can you doI will ask the reverse.... how much pictures is too much ?
On my facebook, every week there is a new picture of me (i am tagging or someone tags me) of me with a girl.... usually jetset events.... a couple of date asked if I was a player.... some of the girls I had XXX others not and it just for show.
As a single guy, having a new pic every week with a different girl you hands around her waist.... would it be too much?